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		<title>By: Lisa Kansas</title>
		<link>http://punkassblog.com/2009/05/11/sex-20-part-two-constructive-dialoguing/comment-page-1/#comment-315944</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Kansas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 17:06:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We didn&#039;t get very far with the &lt;em&gt;trafficking&lt;/em&gt; and &lt;em&gt;decriminalization&lt;/em&gt; discussion specifically, as I said above--really just ran out of time.  As far as we got was discussing the definitions of both terms--as it turns out, decriminalization and legalization are two different things, which I didn&#039;t know before I went there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We didn&#8217;t get very far with the <em>trafficking</em> and <em>decriminalization</em> discussion specifically, as I said above&#8211;really just ran out of time.  As far as we got was discussing the definitions of both terms&#8211;as it turns out, decriminalization and legalization are two different things, which I didn&#8217;t know before I went there.</p>
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		<title>By: violet</title>
		<link>http://punkassblog.com/2009/05/11/sex-20-part-two-constructive-dialoguing/comment-page-1/#comment-314998</link>
		<dc:creator>violet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 17:20:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Actually, Vi, Katha Pollitt pretty much backs up my assertion about the position that mainstream pro-choice takes on abortion.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

No, you&#039;re right. I was mostly commenting on the fact that she was advocating an abortion-as-morally-neutral position in &lt;em&gt;Slate&lt;/em&gt;, a pretty mainstream magazine. It seems relevant to your point because the pro-choice / anti-choice divide &lt;em&gt;isn&#039;t&lt;/em&gt; regularly crossed with constructive dialogue, even if it seems like it ought to be possible. I think that&#039;s because pro-choicers tend to see &#8220;safe, legal, and rare&#8221; within a framework of women having sexual freedom, agency, access to health care, and ultimate control over their bodies; anti-choicers tend to see &#8220;wrong, bad, and evil,&#8221; within a context of women being shamed and controlled by their appointed patriarch. They aren&#039;t reconcilable positions, even if they appear so from afar.

Mirror&#039;s, uh, presence reminds me of a question I had: to what degree was the session about dialogue within activist communities over issues of, say, decriminalization? Because that &lt;em&gt;is&lt;/em&gt; contentious, but there might be enough shared ground to hope for productive dialogue in some instances.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Actually, Vi, Katha Pollitt pretty much backs up my assertion about the position that mainstream pro-choice takes on abortion.</p></blockquote>
<p>No, you&#8217;re right. I was mostly commenting on the fact that she was advocating an abortion-as-morally-neutral position in <em>Slate</em>, a pretty mainstream magazine. It seems relevant to your point because the pro-choice / anti-choice divide <em>isn&#8217;t</em> regularly crossed with constructive dialogue, even if it seems like it ought to be possible. I think that&#8217;s because pro-choicers tend to see &#8220;safe, legal, and rare&#8221; within a framework of women having sexual freedom, agency, access to health care, and ultimate control over their bodies; anti-choicers tend to see &#8220;wrong, bad, and evil,&#8221; within a context of women being shamed and controlled by their appointed patriarch. They aren&#8217;t reconcilable positions, even if they appear so from afar.</p>
<p>Mirror&#8217;s, uh, presence reminds me of a question I had: to what degree was the session about dialogue within activist communities over issues of, say, decriminalization? Because that <em>is</em> contentious, but there might be enough shared ground to hope for productive dialogue in some instances.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Kansas</title>
		<link>http://punkassblog.com/2009/05/11/sex-20-part-two-constructive-dialoguing/comment-page-1/#comment-314505</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Kansas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 00:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mirror,

I feel totally secure in saying that consensus between two groups is impossible when one of the groups sees the other as dehumanized.  If you have some evidence that consensus actually can be achieved under those circumstances, I&#039;d love to see it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mirror,</p>
<p>I feel totally secure in saying that consensus between two groups is impossible when one of the groups sees the other as dehumanized.  If you have some evidence that consensus actually can be achieved under those circumstances, I&#8217;d love to see it.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Kansas</title>
		<link>http://punkassblog.com/2009/05/11/sex-20-part-two-constructive-dialoguing/comment-page-1/#comment-314405</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Kansas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 23:33:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mirror, as soon as you stop misconstruing, either deliberately or otherwise, what I said, we&#039;ll make a lot more progress.  :)

No, I didn&#039;t think fundamentalist evangelicals are the only people that oppose prostitution.  Actually, if you&#039;ll reread the blog article...literacy is your friend :)...you&#039;ll see that I never once mentioned prostitution at all, much less who does or doesn&#039;t oppose it.  In the blog, in my examples of those who practice sexual freedom, I listed &quot;supportive of polyamory, swinging, homosexuality in general and marriage equality in particular,&quot; actually.  So where exactly is this prostitution thing coming from, may I ask..?  And apparently Google isn&#039;t &lt;em&gt;my&lt;/em&gt; friend, because searching for all those ladies, coupled with the words &quot;polyamory,&quot; &quot;swinging&quot; or &quot;homosexuality&quot; gets no results whatsoever.  

So I think you&#039;re going to really have to start tying in what you&#039;re trying to get across here with the actual blog post you&#039;re appending your comments to, eh?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mirror, as soon as you stop misconstruing, either deliberately or otherwise, what I said, we&#8217;ll make a lot more progress.  <img src='http://punkassblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>No, I didn&#8217;t think fundamentalist evangelicals are the only people that oppose prostitution.  Actually, if you&#8217;ll reread the blog article&#8230;literacy is your friend <img src='http://punkassblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8230;you&#8217;ll see that I never once mentioned prostitution at all, much less who does or doesn&#8217;t oppose it.  In the blog, in my examples of those who practice sexual freedom, I listed &#8220;supportive of polyamory, swinging, homosexuality in general and marriage equality in particular,&#8221; actually.  So where exactly is this prostitution thing coming from, may I ask..?  And apparently Google isn&#8217;t <em>my</em> friend, because searching for all those ladies, coupled with the words &#8220;polyamory,&#8221; &#8220;swinging&#8221; or &#8220;homosexuality&#8221; gets no results whatsoever.  </p>
<p>So I think you&#8217;re going to really have to start tying in what you&#8217;re trying to get across here with the actual blog post you&#8217;re appending your comments to, eh?</p>
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		<title>By: Mirror</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mirror</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 23:27:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m unsure how you can talk of [...]is that consensus, and this kind of dialoguing, are simply not possible unless both sides of the issue see the persons arguing the other side as, well, persons.&quot;


If, you have no knowledge of the &#039;other-side&#039; - beyond &#039;fundamental Christianity&#039;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m unsure how you can talk of [...]is that consensus, and this kind of dialoguing, are simply not possible unless both sides of the issue see the persons arguing the other side as, well, persons.&#8221;</p>
<p>If, you have no knowledge of the &#8216;other-side&#8217; &#8211; beyond &#8216;fundamental Christianity&#8217;</p>
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		<title>By: Mirror</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mirror</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 23:08:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So you only think that fundamentalist evangelicals oppose prostitution? Scandinavia/ US/ UK is full of feminist atheists who oppose prostitution. TBN  gave a good list up-thread for you to examine - if you want a more balanced critique of &quot;sexual freedom&quot;

&quot;Gail Dines, Rebecca Whisnant, Melissa Farley, have all addressed these issues.
Perhaps you might want to look into their work&quot;

Google is your friend. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So you only think that fundamentalist evangelicals oppose prostitution? Scandinavia/ US/ UK is full of feminist atheists who oppose prostitution. TBN  gave a good list up-thread for you to examine &#8211; if you want a more balanced critique of &#8220;sexual freedom&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Gail Dines, Rebecca Whisnant, Melissa Farley, have all addressed these issues.<br />
Perhaps you might want to look into their work&#8221;</p>
<p>Google is your friend. <img src='http://punkassblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Kansas</title>
		<link>http://punkassblog.com/2009/05/11/sex-20-part-two-constructive-dialoguing/comment-page-1/#comment-314308</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Kansas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 22:43:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know, there&#039;s suddenly an influx of folks eagerly thrusting words into my mouth.  Wonder why..?  

Who have I singled out in this blog post, other than fundamentalist evangelicals, as persons who oppose sexual freedom?  Are you defining &quot;anti-sexploitation folks&quot; as fundamentalist evangelicals?  If you&#039;re defining anti-sexploitation folks in some other fashion, I&#039;m afraid you&#039;ll have to give a summary of what they believe/pursue/etc. before I can express an opinion about them...because I have not done so to date, since I clearly don&#039;t know who they are.  :) &lt;em&gt;You&#039;re&lt;/em&gt; commenting on &lt;em&gt;my&lt;/em&gt; blog, not the other way around--you have to specify what you&#039;re talking about to get any further responses.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know, there&#8217;s suddenly an influx of folks eagerly thrusting words into my mouth.  Wonder why..?  </p>
<p>Who have I singled out in this blog post, other than fundamentalist evangelicals, as persons who oppose sexual freedom?  Are you defining &#8220;anti-sexploitation folks&#8221; as fundamentalist evangelicals?  If you&#8217;re defining anti-sexploitation folks in some other fashion, I&#8217;m afraid you&#8217;ll have to give a summary of what they believe/pursue/etc. before I can express an opinion about them&#8230;because I have not done so to date, since I clearly don&#8217;t know who they are.  <img src='http://punkassblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  <em>You&#8217;re</em> commenting on <em>my</em> blog, not the other way around&#8211;you have to specify what you&#8217;re talking about to get any further responses.</p>
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		<title>By: Mirror</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mirror</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 22:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well then Lisa maybe you need to look into both camps. Without dismissing anti-sexploitation folks as potential blamers throwing imaginary insults I.e  &quot;Not deviants, freaks, murderers, sluts, etc&quot; 

Maybe they just have a valid and empirically researched different point of view, without the hyperbole.

But, there again, you have not read them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well then Lisa maybe you need to look into both camps. Without dismissing anti-sexploitation folks as potential blamers throwing imaginary insults I.e  &#8220;Not deviants, freaks, murderers, sluts, etc&#8221; </p>
<p>Maybe they just have a valid and empirically researched different point of view, without the hyperbole.</p>
<p>But, there again, you have not read them.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Kansas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa Kansas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 22:06:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bewilderness...I&#039;ve never even heard of a &quot;pro trafficking advocacy group.&quot;  So I&#039;m pretty sure that whatever I&#039;m discussing, that isn&#039;t it.  I&#039;m also not sure what about the work of the people you&#039;ve listed (who I&#039;m honestly not familiar with beyond probably having heard at least one of their names mentioned before in passing) you think I should look into.  I&#039;m quite sure that I&#039;m not in favor of building a consensus with people who are in favor of forced sex, and frankly I don&#039;t have much personal interest in building a consensus with people who are in favor of forced pregnancy, though I can&#039;t object if others who oppose it want to do so, especially if they wind up getting positive results out of it without having to compromise their principle that forced pregnancy is wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bewilderness&#8230;I&#8217;ve never even heard of a &#8220;pro trafficking advocacy group.&#8221;  So I&#8217;m pretty sure that whatever I&#8217;m discussing, that isn&#8217;t it.  I&#8217;m also not sure what about the work of the people you&#8217;ve listed (who I&#8217;m honestly not familiar with beyond probably having heard at least one of their names mentioned before in passing) you think I should look into.  I&#8217;m quite sure that I&#8217;m not in favor of building a consensus with people who are in favor of forced sex, and frankly I don&#8217;t have much personal interest in building a consensus with people who are in favor of forced pregnancy, though I can&#8217;t object if others who oppose it want to do so, especially if they wind up getting positive results out of it without having to compromise their principle that forced pregnancy is wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: thebewilderness</title>
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		<dc:creator>thebewilderness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 21:54:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a little confused by the way you are framing this. Is there a pro trafficking advocacy group that you think the victims of trafficking should attempt to find common ground with?

It is difficult to imagine a position in favor of forced pregnancy or forced sex that does not dismiss the human rights of the person being forced.
I do not think it is possible to build consensus with people who think they have a right to restrict your rights. Who insist that their access to your body is an expression of their rights rather than a violation of yours.
Gail Dines, Rebecca Whisnant, Melissa Farley, have all addressed these issues. 
Perhaps you might want to look into their work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a little confused by the way you are framing this. Is there a pro trafficking advocacy group that you think the victims of trafficking should attempt to find common ground with?</p>
<p>It is difficult to imagine a position in favor of forced pregnancy or forced sex that does not dismiss the human rights of the person being forced.<br />
I do not think it is possible to build consensus with people who think they have a right to restrict your rights. Who insist that their access to your body is an expression of their rights rather than a violation of yours.<br />
Gail Dines, Rebecca Whisnant, Melissa Farley, have all addressed these issues.<br />
Perhaps you might want to look into their work.</p>
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