Women have it tough here.
When a woman gets raped and murdered, even commenters at Feministe break out this kind of language:
I don’t know about the whole race thing you’re getting at, but I agree that the coverage seems to be trying to force her into the victim role. It’s tragic what happened, but Jennifer made a number of really stupid decisions that are not terribly sympathetic (to me, at least).
Though the phrase “force her into the victim role” gives me the shudders when we’re talking about someone assaulted and killed, I understand that the commenter isn’t excusing the crime. Still, there’s much blaming and shaming going on here, and it seems ingrained in our culture. Despite Jennifer Moore putting herself in a position many people trip into at some point in their lives — lost and alone late at night — somehow she was asking for it. Yeesh.
But at least in America you _can_ be a little promiscuous and generally live to tell the tale. In Iran, it gets you stoned (and not in the good way):
Reportedly, Kolhari had an affair after her request for a divorce from her husband was denied. According to Iran Focus, she was sentenced on two charges: she received 15 years imprisonment for participating in the murder of her husband and death by stoning for having extra-marital sex.
I imagine you’d make a lot of trouble for yourself by filing for divorce in Iran, so I take it this woman was _really_ unhappy, enough to kill him when the state nixed her plea. Improbably, she only got 15 years for the murder. The affair with another guy? That’s what gets her stoned.
When a woman gets in bigger trouble for fucking a guy than killing one, your country’s priorities are extremely screwed up.
While it’s better in America, I wonder how many fundies, in a circle of their own, would admit to favoring slut-stonings. I’d wager the number would not be insignificant. Given the amount of political pull these zealots continue to amass, is it really inconceivable that we would someday slip even farther into a theocratic mindset and begin to emulate the countries we supposedly hate so much?
American fundamentalists are already going that direction. They obsess over eliminating a woman’s choices, just like in Iran.





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