when the status quo frustrates.

The more choice you grant, the more responsibly people act

Friday, July 28th, 2006

Women have it tough here.

When a woman gets raped and murdered, even commenters at Feministe break out this kind of language:

I don’t know about the whole race thing you’re getting at, but I agree that the coverage seems to be trying to force her into the victim role. It’s tragic what happened, but Jennifer made a number of really stupid decisions that are not terribly sympathetic (to me, at least).

Though the phrase “force her into the victim role” gives me the shudders when we’re talking about someone assaulted and killed, I understand that the commenter isn’t excusing the crime. Still, there’s much blaming and shaming going on here, and it seems ingrained in our culture. Despite Jennifer Moore putting herself in a position many people trip into at some point in their lives — lost and alone late at night — somehow she was asking for it. Yeesh.

But at least in America you _can_ be a little promiscuous and generally live to tell the tale. In Iran, it gets you stoned (and not in the good way):

Reportedly, Kolhari had an affair after her request for a divorce from her husband was denied. According to Iran Focus, she was sentenced on two charges: she received 15 years imprisonment for participating in the murder of her husband and death by stoning for having extra-marital sex.

I imagine you’d make a lot of trouble for yourself by filing for divorce in Iran, so I take it this woman was _really_ unhappy, enough to kill him when the state nixed her plea. Improbably, she only got 15 years for the murder. The affair with another guy? That’s what gets her stoned.

When a woman gets in bigger trouble for fucking a guy than killing one, your country’s priorities are extremely screwed up.

While it’s better in America, I wonder how many fundies, in a circle of their own, would admit to favoring slut-stonings. I’d wager the number would not be insignificant. Given the amount of political pull these zealots continue to amass, is it really inconceivable that we would someday slip even farther into a theocratic mindset and begin to emulate the countries we supposedly hate so much?

American fundamentalists are already going that direction. They obsess over eliminating a woman’s choices, just like in Iran.

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Anyone for a crazy image warz?

Friday, July 28th, 2006

Paul the Spud thinks he understands the horrible depths of the google image search.

But I tell him now, he cannot comprehend the True Horrors of the google image search.

Gaze upon this work ye mortals and despair (this is SO not work safe) (more…)

A must-read on the Lebanese crisis

Friday, July 28th, 2006

Thanks to hilzoy at ObWi for soliciting from a reader this detailed, insider account of life in Lebanon.

We’ve failed you, America

Friday, July 28th, 2006

Today, Ezra Klein brings us a brilliant quote from Lee Siegel:

No wonder, several years after the blogosphere allegedly became a people powerhouse, the country is mired even deeper in Iraq and successfully distracted by one false public alarm after another.

Unfortunately, Ezra refuses to take the blog-o-blame for all of this country’s ills, and Iraq in particular. If we look in the mirror, though, we have only ourselves to blame.

Think of how lazy we are when it comes to job openings in this administration. How many bloggers applied to the Secretary of State opening after Powell left, hmm? How many of us would take the time to ready our resume should The Donald keel over due to stress? If we had any determination at all, we’d have all joined the US miitary back when the war started. I’m sure we’d be 3 and 4 star generals by now, and able to dramatically influence administration policy.

Okay, so we failed to do all of that. Fine. Then we absolutely should have used our people power to form a mercenary army to keep the peace on the streets of Baghdad.

I hope you’re not laughing, because this is serious business. Everyone would get assigned a rank based on hits per day for bloggers and comments per day for commenters, and we’d station ourselves all over the city to keep watch. Every time one of us saw an insurgent commit a violent act, we’d shame him relentlessly on our blogs. Unlike traditional arms, our smart bombs never miss. Every one of my ‘yo momma’ jokes is right on target, and there are only so many internet shamings a would-be terrorist can take before rolling over to our people-powered superiority.

We missed the boat, people. Iraq is our fault. Well, actually, I’ve got all these great ideas, but what have you done, hmm? I wag my finger in your general direction.

Oh Noes! Super-Goys are waving the anti-semite card around!

Friday, July 28th, 2006

Damn, it’s too easy to snark on the bad HTML and layout of this, what? third tier? fourth? Pissant at any rate, rightie blog that has decided to attack Amanda. I mean, everything seems to be indented, and his use of tabs are ridiculous and gratuitous to say the least

Personally, there is one reason and one reason only to read a right wing blog, and that’s the pathetic tough man posturing that is a neccesary part of the Wingnut psyche (it’s funnier with the “ladies” though, because they’re not supposed to be all into the voyeuristic bloodlust thang), because guess what folks? It seems that those wingnuts who aren’t on the Post-Millenial Dispensationalist Gravy Train support Isreal’s expantionist agression because, dum dum DUM, they have teeny tiny cocks and Iraq’s not the stiffy producer it once was. (more…)

Friday Random Ten – The Happy Birthday to the Best Partner EVAR! Edition

Friday, July 28th, 2006

Happy birthday, baby. I love you.

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1) Jens Lekman – Draw a Dinosaur For Me
2) Jason Brouwer – Run Me Out of Town
3) Br. Danielson – Your Daughters Will Tune You
4) Gogol Bordello – Start Wearing Purple
5) Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds – Crow Jane
6) Elvis Presley – Suspicious Minds
7) Elliott Smith – Happiness
8) David Byrne – I Wanna Dance With Somebody
9) Sufjan Stevens – Size Too Small
10) The Screamin’ Mee-Mees – Hot Sody

Bonus Guilty Pleasure: 2Pac and Jodeci – How Do You Want It?

Peter F. Hamilton is a fucking asshole bastard

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

I’m just about finishing off Reality Dysfunction (on page 700 or so), any other Sci-Fi nerds who have already walked this dark path before me want to tear into it first before I really let rip on this piece of mary sue ridden evil-done with an eye towards the sexism and misognyny that permeates the whole thing?

For instance, will it be worth buying the next two books just to sate my curiosity about what happens, or does Joshua not die a horrible death at the end of the first book? (I could almost stand the satanist cliche, and the hyperactive case of Girlfriend In A Fridge syndrome but oh gawd, Joshua! Arrgh!)

Thoughts? Suggestions of how to dispose of the book after reading it?

New music Thursday: 2 songs of note

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

My new album this week was Thom Yorke’s The Eraser. Other than “Black Swan,” a song I currently have on repeat1 because I love it like no other, I found the collection forgettable, like Thom recorded a bunch of discarded wistful Kid A tracks on his own. “Black Swan” won’t stop talking to me, though, in no small part because it closes out the film “A Scanner Darkly.”

Scouring the mp3 blogs of the world uncovered another song I can’t get enough of, “I am A Motherfucker,” by pop-rock Swedes Kitty & the K. They remind me of the danceable side of Le Tigre, and there has been much shimmying and shaking in front of my computer to their trio of songs available for download thus far.

Umm… Don’t you support putting random arab-ethnic people into special death & torture camps?

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

Seriously rightwingers and random Unconditional Isreal Supporters, do you really want to get into a “who’s more anti-semitic” fight? Because, unfortunately, leftwingers actually know what a semite is, for instance, Arabic is a semitic language, and the peoples of palestine and lebanon are the descendants of semitic peoples, and that includes those that can’t trace their trace their entire, mostly pure blooded, ancestry right back to the original children of Isreal, which many in the region, irregardless of their current religious beliefs, can. (more…)

Day by day, mistake by mistake

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

Chris Muir writes a tedious, ho-hum right wing cartoon called day by day. I’m sure you’ve heard of it.

Hopefully, you also heard about his stunning foray into philosophy, wherein he purports to understand, of all things, Immanuel Kant, the father of the categorical imperative.

Here are his 3 achievements:


I have a Philosophy BA, but I’ll let PhD’ed PHL prof hilzoy explain why Muir couldn’t have found two words more diametrically opposed than Kant and nihilism. Auguste does a great job, too.

Muir _really_ doesn’t get it, In fact, he even references the concept of Kantian universal law in that 3rd strip, just to make sure we know he knows absolutely nothing about 1) nihilism, 2) universal laws, and 3) Kant.

If you read down in hilzoy’s comments, Muir tries to defend himself, an effort that amounts to “pfff, whatever, nerd.”

Today is official “make fun of Muir’s misunderstanding” day, and included below the fold are my 3 takes on his strips. Enjoy.

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Why can’t they just say “Hitler” so I could add it to my link list?

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

“Anti-Semite” is more polite, perhaps? I dunno, both are so offensive that I feel like if you’re gonna reach for the latter, kick it up an extra few notches and reach for the “H” word instead. We know you’re thinking it, anyway.

We just touched on Howard Dean’s brilliant commentary, but I’d like to bring you a much brighter shining beacon of hate from the right.

Amanda argued that we can’t be scared of opposing Israel’s actions because of the threat of an Anti-semitism charge. Here, I’ll quote you the same bit used by the right-wing blogger in question:

There was a bit of a dust-up on Punkass Marc’s post on how he thinks Ned Lamont is going to be politics-as-usual because of his refusal to criticize Israel openly for what seems to be obviously wrong, which is, of course, killing innocents with such a slim excuse. [...] The problem with that is when Israel does something so obviously odious as killing innocent civilians and holding them culpable for what an unsanctioned organization does, well, even just straightforward reporting is going to seem critical [...]
The problem is–if I’m free to say so without dredging up the operant conditioning debate–is that whenever the fear of having right wingers equate criticism of Israel with being an anti-Semite makes a liberal or even just a journalist engage in self-censorship, that emboldens the right and undermines our position. The short term gains (not getting deluded with email, avoiding the inevitable attempts of your opponent to ruin your reputation) are causing, or at least enabling, serious long term problems. And I would characterize this invasion as one of those problems.

I encourage any of you to find the anti-Semitism in that quote or in her entire post. Please. Point it out in the comments and I’ll streak the Texas capitol building.

That didn’t stop Darleen, someone whose open jealousy for Amanda manifests itself in nasty personal attacks, from titling her post:
Amanda Marcotte ‘fucking kikes are just RUINING my election party plans. Not like I hate kikes, really …’

Really, just savor the misdirected hate in that title.

Bask in the misrepresentation of everything Amanda discusses (even in the part Darleen quotes).

Best of all, indulge in the amazing way it proves her point: talking about Israel’s actions gets you slapped with nasty Anti-semitism charges, so we have to deal with it and fight through it or we’ll embolden them because their cruel tactic worked in shutting us up.

But this isn’t really about insulting, Amanda, is it? No, there’s a lot of hate and anger in this Darleen person, and it isn’t just directed at a certain Pandagonian. She couldn’t wait to break out Jewish slurs, and the title isn’t near the end of it. She also used the following phrases:
-”icky, you know, jewish stuff”
-”a’scared of dem nasty old Jooooos”
-”those fucking Jews”
-”Those fucking Jews” (again)
-”Lieberman (that kike sleaze)”

So, um, this Darleen person extensively quoted Amanda’s post, no part of which actually contains any racism or discrimination. And somewhere deep down, I think Darleen can see that. But she wrote this post anyway. And all those slurs. And then she attached them to her least favorite liberal genius so she could vent them.

Own your hatred and prejudice, Darleen. Don’t wuss out and pin it on others who’ve done nothing but advance the cause of tolerance. At the very least, you should avoid quoting someone so extensively that you prove they can’t possibly hold the hate in their heart that you do.

Your Democratic leadership at work

Thursday, July 27th, 2006

Howard Dean: Taking on the right people at the right time for the right reasons.

“The Iraqi prime minister is an anti-Semite,” said Dean.